Autistic and Living the Dream

Category: Autism

  • Rejecting Academic Norms: Trans and Autistic Voices Matter

    Rejecting Academic Norms: Trans and Autistic Voices Matter

    I tried to write the positionality and reflexivity section of my PhD thesis today (the bit that tells the readers who I am and what lenses I see this work through). What I wanted to write is “I am trans, I am autistic, get over it”. I would love to say this, but of course…

  • Navigating Identity: The Importance of Autistic Shielding

    Navigating Identity: The Importance of Autistic Shielding

    Authenticity is complex as social behaviors are influenced by cultural contexts. Marginalized individuals often adapt their behaviors for safety, employing strategies like code-switching or Autistic Masking. Autistic Shielding, a more genuine expression of identity, fosters connection within marginalized communities, allowing individuals to embrace their true selves in safer environments.

  • The Impact of ‘Neurospicy’ on Neurodivergent Communities

    The Impact of ‘Neurospicy’ on Neurodivergent Communities

    The term “neurospicy” describes neurodivergent individuals but risks undermining the experiences of disabled individuals due to its euphemistic nature. Originating in the early 2020s to challenge medical labels, it contains racial-sexist connotations that can perpetuate harmful stereotypes. In contrast, “neurodivergent” is preferred for its inclusivity and empowerment.

  • 2024 in Review: Advocacy Work and Community Connections

    2024 in Review: Advocacy Work and Community Connections

    2024 was another very busy year for me and a very turbulent time for many of us worldwide. In the UK political violence towards transgender people, disabled people and other marginalised groups has continued to grow. The ban on puberty blockers for all transgender young people is the most recent attempt to bring us down.…

  • Ode to a lost hat

    Ode to a lost hat

    My Dearest, where are you?  I have searched many hours for your warm splendor, There were two days I forgot you existed,  But now in my hour of need I must have you. You are mine, yet you are gone,  So far – or close – to me, I cannot tell, You have gone and…

  • The jewellery I never get to wear

    The jewellery I never get to wear

    This post delves into the challenges faced by a chronically ill, anxious Autistic individual in attending social events, due to physical and mental considerations. The author highlights the complexities of preparing for outings, the impact on relationships, and the need for understanding from others. Despite missed opportunities, the individual prioritizes self-care and hopes for future…

  • What’s the best thing about being Autistic and LGBTQIA+?

    What’s the best thing about being Autistic and LGBTQIA+?

    This pride month, I asked the community: What’s the best thing about being both Autistic and LGBTQIA+? This blog is based on your answers. Autistic and queer people are often understood through issues we experience such as healthcare needs, inaccessibility, stigma and prejudice. These areas are important for us to discuss, be aware of and…

  • Trans and Autistic: Power at the intersection

    Trans and Autistic: Power at the intersection

    Gender expression and identity, under colonialism, is considered as binary, either masculine or feminine, but some people fall somewhere along – or outside of – the spectrum of gender. Trans and gender diverse identities (as well as cultural ‘third genders’ such as two-spirit) exist more frequently in Autistic communities than in non-Autistic communities. Many Autistic…

  • Trans and Autistic: Living in two closets

    Trans and Autistic: Living in two closets

    The overlap of Autistic and LGBTQIA+ identities is a growing topic of conversation especially for those of us who occupy both spaces, and there are lots of us! We are all at differing points in our neurodivergent and queer journeys, some of us are clear of who we are, some of us are confused, some…

  • Check list for UK Pride events

    Check list for UK Pride events

    I’m going to several UK Pride events this year. I made myself a checklist and thought others might benefit from this too. #PrideMonth #Pride2024